
You've spent years building something that matters — a career, a family, a reputation.
You've worked hard, shown up, delivered results.
From the outside, you've got it together.
But inside?
You barely recognise the woman in the mirror anymore.
At work, your ideas get overlooked. Your voice gets talked over. You watch others command the room while you second-guess every word. When did you become the quiet one?
At home, you're holding everything together — but you feel like you're disappearing in the process. Everyone else's needs come first. Yours don't even make the list.
Inside yourself, there's a voice you've been ignoring for too long:
"Where did I go?"
You're exhausted. Not just from the workload — but from the weight of pretending you're fine.
You're invisible. Even in rooms you've earned the right to fill.
You're silent. You used to speak with fire. Now you rehearse sentences in your head and still don't say them.
If you're reading this at 2am, unable to sleep, wondering if you'll ever feel like yourself again — you're not alone.
This isn't burnout. It's disconnection.
And you don't have to live like this anymore.
The Midlife School™ is a 12-week guided reinvention experience for accomplished women who have lost touch with their voice, their visibility, and their sense of self — and are ready to find their way.
This isn't another leadership course or self-help programme.
This is a 12-week experience where you stop proving yourself, start trusting yourself, and remember who you were before the world told you to be smaller.
A transformational container where you shed the roles, expectations, and years of putting everyone else first — and finally come home to yourself.
She's still there. And she's ready.
Whether you're navigating:
The career plateau that's left you feeling stuck and unseen
The identity shift of menopause, empty nest, or changing roles
The quiet crisis of success that doesn't feel successful anymore
The exhaustion of leading at work while feeling lost inside
This is where you begin again.
Month 1 — Remember Who You Are
Reconnection
Strip away the roles, expectations, and stories that have buried your true self
Reconnect to your core values, strengths, and desires — not who you "should" be
Reclaim the parts of yourself you've been suppressing to fit in
Begin to trust your instincts and inner knowing again
Month 2 — Reclaim Your Voice & Presence
Reclamation
Learn how to speak up again — in meetings, at home, in your life — without guilt or apology
Set boundaries that protect your energy and honour your worth
Rebuild the confidence and self-trust that years of silencing have eroded
Command presence without performing or proving
Month 3 — Redesign Your Next Chapter
Reinvention
Create a vision for what's next that excites you — not just what looks good on paper
Define what success, fulfilment, and influence mean to you now
Build a practical roadmap for your next chapter — whether that's a board role, portfolio career, pivot, or something entirely new
Step into this season of your life with courage and intention

"I'm Just So Tired of Feeling This Way."
I’ve Been There...
For 16 years I practised as a criminal barrister—black gown, sharp wit, high stakes.
But behind the polish, something shifted.
I got an overwhelming sense that my work was deeply unfulfilling
I began to lose my voice as I watched others repeat ideas I’d voiced—and get the credit.
I dreaded Monday mornings and the sense of disconnection
I constantly lay awake at night thinking “Who I am? Is this it for?” "Am I too old to change my life?"
I wasn’t broken. I was outgrowing a version of myself I’d spent years perfecting.
That’s the quiet ache so many high-achieving women feel. The life you built is impressive—and no longer aligned.
So, I did the hard work: unlearning, renegotiating boundaries, reclaiming my voice, and redesigning success on my terms. I moved from performing to leading from presence; from being “the safe pair of hands” to being the woman who owns the room— without apology, without over-explaining, without shrinking.
I left practice and became a Multi-Award Winning Professional Speaker, Executive Coach and Leadership Consultant.
But there's so much I had to figure out on my own. So many nights of questioning, even crying. I wish I'd had a guide to help to discover what really mattered to me at the Midlife stage of my career.
That's why I created The Midlife School™
The Midlife School™ is the container I wish I’d had back then:
Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s an awakening.
✅ You're accomplished on paper but feel invisible in practice
Whether you're leading a team or raising a family (or both), whether you're in the boardroom or trying to figure out what's next — if you've lost yourself, this is for you.
12 Weeks of Live Group Coaching with Sharon Amesu: Multi Award Winning criminal barrister, leadership coach, and guide for women reclaiming their power in midlife.
The Midlife School Journal & Reflection Workbook
Private Peer Community
Guest Expert Masterclasses
Integration Week & Closing Celebration
Lifetime Alumni Access
The Midlife School™ — 12-Week Experience
VIP Experience — £4,997
Limited places available for this intimate, high-touch experience.
Applications close 20th November 2025 or when all spaces are filled.
Small groups mean deep work. Real transformation. Lasting connection.
If you're ready — apply now.
"I thought I needed a new job. What I really needed was to remember who I was before I became everyone's everything."
"For the first time in years, I spoke up in a meeting without rehearsing it 10 times first. That's when I knew working with Sharon had changed me."
"I was drowning in silence — at work, at home, inside myself. Sharon gave me my voice back and taught me I didn't need permission to use it."
"I spent years making myself smaller. This experience taught me that my power wasn't lost — I'd just forgotten where I put it."
You've spent years taking care of everyone else.
Now it's your turn.
Midlife isn't a crisis. It's a calling.
And this is your invitation to answer it — not by doing more, but by becoming more of who you truly are.
Schedule your discovery call or submit your short application
📩 Questions?
Send us your inquiries, and let’s start the conversation about your midlife journey!
The program is designed for women in their 40s and beyond seeking clarity and reinvention.
The Midlife School™ is a 12 week online group coaching experience focused on growth and transformation.
You can take part in key sessions and watch the replays. All sessions will be recorded.
Step into your purpose and embrace your midlife journey.
It’s time to become more!